I am in a relationship that has been through its challenges. We have been 5 together for 5 years off and on and i swear a year ago when we broke up, I would never get back with him again. I was done. But it seemed like the breakup was the greatest thing that could have happened to the both of us. It made us realize just how much we really appreciate and need each other. No doubt, reconciling was not easy. Mainly because he hurt me twice. But it hit me that neither one of us had really dealt with our pasts and during our breakup we had plenty of time to talk and understand each other without the the pressures of a relationship. We became the friends we should have become first. I guess i am blogging about this because it just amazes me that 1 year ago we were not together and not sure what to do and today i can say i am happier with this man than i ever thought i could be. I am enjoying our moment. Truly enjoying the moment. Now don't get me wrong.. he gets on my nerve and i on his. But i never imagined that i could be SOOOO incredibly happy with this man.

I just needed to get this off my chest cause my heart is fluttering like butterflies were carrying it away.

Now im going to bed because i am exhausted from Jersey and the fiasco that was cheer leading. GN